Do you think you’re in a relationship with someone you’ve known from a past lifetime? When you plan for each incarnation, you make contracts on the Astral Plane to connect with souls you’ve known in previous lives.

How can you tell if you and your partner were lovers in another life? What are the signs? The first thing to look for is a stronger than normal level of intimacy. Do you feel safer with this person than you did with other partners? Can you share your deepest feelings with them?

The second thing to look for is common interests. It doesn’t mean that you both like piña coladas and getting caught in the rain. It’s more that you’ll share the same opinions of people, have similar social and political views, and be able to look back at those moments when you said, “I can’t believe you like that, too!”

The downside of shared past lives and being past life lovers is that the compulsion to be with each other can mask serious problems in the relationship. Many souls who were lovers in past lives agree to be together again, only to discover by the time they meet that one has a drinking problem or some other challenge. The other becomes codependent out of fear that confronting the issue might break them up.

The good news is that sex can be great between past life lovers because both feel more free to express themselves. That applies even when the genders are reversed. And you can be generally much more accepting of each other’s individuality and idiosyncrasies.